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The fastest way to get your ex back is to actively make her have some feelings for you again.

Three examples of feelings are attraction, respect and love.

In most cases, a guy can make his ex-woman have feelings for him again immediately, or within a few days of trying.

How can he do that? He can actively re-spark some of her feelings by email, text, social media, on a phone call, or in person.

Once you have re-sparked your ex’s feelings for you, she will then relax her guard and begin to feel drawn to you.

She suddenly has feelings for you again and no matter how hard she tries to fight it, she can’t ignore the fact that she is feeling drawn to you now. She wants to be around you, she wants to see you, she wants to be in your arms again.

At that point you simply need to guide her through the rest of the ex back process and she will be yours once again.

Where most guys go wrong, is that they either go inactive and they ignore her in the hopes that she comes running back, or the guy continues to talk to her in ways that are unattractive to her.



For example: If a woman says to a guy, “I don’t wan’t to be with you anymore,” a guy will usually then beg and plead with her and say things like, “Please give me another chance,” or he’ll try to ask her why, “Please tell me why you’re breaking up with me. Tell me what I need to do, I’ll do anything, I’ll change anything.”

But the thing is, neither of those approaches work.

Begging and pleading doesn’t work because women aren’t attracted to the emotional weakness of men.

Women are attracted to the emotional strength of men and turned off by emotional weakness, so in moments like that, it simply makes her have even less feelings for him.



As for asking her why she’s breaking up with you, that doesn’t help either because a woman doesn’t want to be a guy’s teacher in life about how to be a man.

If she teaches her guy how to be the man that she needs now, she fears that he will need her to teach him again in the future.

If that keeps happening time and time again, she will feel like she has to take care of him, or as though she is his big sister, mother, or teacher in life.

She wants him to figure out how to be a man without her help, rather than asking her to tell him what he needs to change to make her happy.

This is why some guys will waste months trying to ask a woman for another chance, when she just isn’t interested because he doesn’t know how to make her have feelings for him anymore.

Likewise, some guys will waste weeks or months ignoring their ex in the hope that she comes back, but if she doesn’t have feelings for him, she’s not going to feel like she’s missing out on much, so she’ll usually just move on.


Actively Make Her Have Feelings For You Again



The fastest way to get her back is to be active, rather than inactive.

By active I mean that you’re actively making her have feelings for you again, rather than ignoring her and hoping that it does the trick.

A lot of guys come to me for advice on how to get their ex back, after they’d been ignoring their woman for 30 or 60 days and they come to me and ask, “Why isn’t it working, Dan? Why isn’t my woman running back to me?” and the reason why is that ignoring a woman just doesn’t work in most cases.

I’ve only seen that approach work in about 20% of cases, and when it does work, the woman comes back temporarily, and then she sees that the guy hasn’t changed, and she breaks up with him again.

So, not only has the guy lost a lot of time where he’s been ignoring her and she’s been moving on without him, but if he does get another chance with her, she breaks up with him because she sees that he really just hasn’t changed.